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I get this question alot…

"Can You Get Your Ex Back?"

I always answer yes… in most cases.

 Dealing with a break up is never an easy thing.  It is painful and confusing.  I know I’ve been there.  When you break up with someone or they break up with you it is often hard to figure out how you are going to live without them.  But trying to figure out how to go about getting back with your ex is a whole other story.  Here are 3 tips that should really help.

#1. Figure out if you actually want your ex back.

Right now, if you are like most people, your emotions are probably running a little high at the moment.  It is important to take a step back and figure out if you even want to get back with your ex.  Sometimes what drives people to try to win back their ex’s hearts is just not wanting to be alone, and they don’t take into consideration if they really like their ex and actually want to be with them.

Here are some questions to help you decide if you want to be with your ex.  First, do you love your ex?   Second, do you and your ex have enough in common?  Third, do you and your ex have similar goals for the future?

If you ask yourself these questions and answer yes, GREAT! it’s time to move to tip 2.

#2. Take a deep breath.

 

When I am dealing with a stressful situation my gut reaction is to just fix it and fix it now!

 

Unfortunately this impulse to fix a stressful situation often leads me to do things that sometimes I regret.  Maybe you can relate. So before you pick up the phone, open your email account, or text message your ex, relax.  Despite what you may think you have time.   It is important right now to work on staying (or becoming calm).  That way when you do approach your ex you are cool and collected and not a desperate maniac.

#3. Confidence wins the day.

After you’ve taken a deep breath and calmed down, one of the most valuable things you can do is to take some time and reflect and improve yourself.  Get a new haircut or color, buy a new outfit, or take up a new hobby.  Trust me when I say your ex is watching you, and hearing through the grapevine what you are up to.  If you show that you don’t need your ex, they will be more interested in you.

Can you win back your ex? 

Absolutely!  But you need a plan.   For an in depth guide on not only exactly how to win back your ex, but also how to keep them once you get them, check out my review of Back Together Forever here.

Wishing you love and happiness,

Anja

P.S. If you have any questions, just submit them to the right, I would love to feature them on my blog in the future.

 

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