There is nothing in life that is nicer than being in love… 

 

It’s when love crashes and burns that things get a more than a little dificult.  There is no way to see a bad breakup through rose colored glasses.  Breakups just stink, plain and simple.  And they are even worse if you didn’t want to break up in the first place.  I’ve been through breakups like this, and the pain was so intense that I thought I was going to die at the time.

So what do you do when you are faced with a heart in need of triage at your local ER, and no idea what to do about it?

You basically have two choices.

#1: Guess

#2: Learn what works, and win your ex back.

For whatever reason, I’ve done plenty of guessing in my life.  In fact, I have to say that guessing made up almost all of my relationship decisions for the first dozen or so boyfriends I had….  I’ll bet you can guess how well those relationships ended up.

And for some people this works out OK.  I’m convinced that some of us are born with really high relationship IQs, but for the rest of us (like me) we either have to learn relationship skills in the school of hard knocks or we have to learn them from some outside source.  Unfortunately for me, relationships skills aren’t taught in school.  

Back to my story… after figuring out that this relationship stuff wasn’t working for me, I started to read relationship books.  An amazing thing happened.  With this education, my relationships just started to get better.  What I discovered is that good relationships are based on a specific set of skills that nearly guarentee your success.   That is where The Magic Of Making Up comes in.  You see there are a ton of gimmicky, bad products out there that promise to change your relationships fast…. Zoom… Zoom… Zoom.  And while this sounds good, it doesn’t particularly work very well.

But I found something that does work and that is The Magic Of Making Up.   You see the guy who wrote this really knows his stuff when it comes to relationships and that is why it works so well.  So, if you want to get back with your ex, check it out.

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Life is funny isn’t it.

I never had any problem at all with relationships until Mark.  You see, I was so in love with him that I could hardly see straight.  To say he had stolen my heart is an understatement.

We were very much in love, but somewhere along the line, we started to fight.  It was really kind of crazy, because we weren’t (until then) big fighters.  But, once the fighting started we couldn’t seem to stop it, so despite our intense feeling toward one another, we broke up.

I was incredibly broken hearted.  I couldn’t believe how bad it hurt.  I had never been that much in love, and I had never had a heart break that bad either.

I think because I was in so much pain, I did all the classic break up things too.  It was a little bit crazy.  I basically stalked the poor guy.  My motives were good, I really missed him, and just wanted to get him back, but unfortunately for me, my attitude really just turned him off.  I guess that text messaging someone 100 times a day is probably not the best solution to the problem of getting back your ex. 

Now, granted… I had no idea what I was doing, I had never taken a relationship 101 course in school and I have to tell you, it wasn’t easy dealing with this stuff, but I still made a royal mess of things.  Being the bull headed person that I am though, I didn’t give up hope.  I actually kept trying.  Then one day I stumbled across a system that really worked.  Check out the best system for getting your ex back here.

So anyhow, what I learned is that stalking doesn’t really work so well.  But there are things that do work.

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